#OnRepeat Melanie Fiona - You Stop My Heart

I don't know what it is about this song, but I LOVE it! Their voices compliment each other really well. They both have that "I can't sing but if I sing at a whisper it'll sound like I can" voice.

Ladies Hear This...

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then fck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. [Oh yes] He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his, always. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. & ugh, if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone ..complimentary... not supplementary... Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miSs you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for ..granted... Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others. Cheating's horrible, karmas worse. it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

So thankful for life and all its blessings

Happy ThanksGiving

I'm so #Thankful for God all mighty, my family, friends, good health, the roof over my head, my car,my knowledge, this beautiful brown skin =) I can go on for days! Dear God, Thank you! Without my Lord and Savior I'm nothing!! He blessed my heart, filled me with love and wisdom, he encouraged and motivated me! Thank you! *tear*

Stomp Out Bullying

I am just so fucken annoyed. People can really be so ignorant. There are kids dieing because of bullying and you are telling me that they are week for letting other get to them. You are telling me that they are the ignorant one, no honey, you guys are. This really is pissing me off to the extreme. What pisses me more off is that they are older kids bugging small ones. I really wanted to just shake the dam parents and through them off their senses and tell them "do you see what your fucken kid is doing?Do you see it? or would you see it when the kid kills themselves and your kids is feeling guilty. Will you be proud then" I believe I am a person full of morals & when you come to me and say that I'm full of it cuz of what I believe you can then kiss my ass. I have morals, and they are mine and if you don't like it then oh well. I am me and you are you. We can't completely stop it but we can help. Help someone in need. Tell them that everything will be fine.

For the kids being bullied: It will be alright, just stay strong. Just know that there is people that do love you. That does who bug you just do it because they lack love and support from those they love. Just ignore them. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

I'm learning as I grow.. I'm trying to grow by learning.

When you like who you are, you'll stop faking like somebody else.

Sometimes I feel like I want to accomplish these big goals, not because it's what I REALLY want to do.. but so I can smush it in your face, like .. bitch, I did it..lol JK .

Seriously Want God To Use me To Bless My Family

I dream up all these things I wish to happen to my life..It's very amazing

&&nd So far He never let me down

Be yourself, truthfully.

Accept yourself, gratefully.

Value yourself, joyfully.

Forgive yourself, completely.

Treat yourself, generously.

Balance yourself, harmoniously.

Bless yourself, abundantly.

Trust yourself, confidently.

Love yourself, wholeheartedly.

Empower yourself, immediately.

Give yourself, enthusiastically.

Express yourself, radiantly.

If you want things to change in your life

you got to change somethings in your life.

You can pray for God to guide your steps but you must be willing to move your feet

❤-Tu.MiniSoniDoll xXx

A Bloggers StateOfMind

What is your current obsession?

Magazines -- i am a subscriber to nylon,

teen vogue, cosmo girl, cosmopolitan,

seventeen, us weekly

What are you wearing today?

RightNow-- im wearing a black jacket

and H&M tank ; skinny jeans, ugghs .

What’s for dinner today?

pizza hut , cus mom promised from last week.

What would make today special?

today is special, every day is because God let me live it :)

What would you like to learn to do?

make my own clothes!

What’s the last thing you bought?

Yesterday -- i bought the US weekly

&& A Wild Berry Smoothie

What are you listening to right now?

My Groove-shark playlist

What is your favourite weather?

Spring -- when its like 70-80 outside.

What is your most challenging goal right now?

uhmm -- stick to one job. lol.

i change my jobs every two months or so. =/

What do you think about the person who tagged you?

shes cool -- i love her blogs :) very unique!.

If you could have a house totally paid for, fully furnished

anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?

CALI ofcourse way too much fabolusity, so id have to say a nice quiet place

What would you like to have in your hands right now?

a bunch of 100 dollar bills, lol.

What would you like to get rid of?

all negativity && violence in the world

If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?

Nigeria just for a day &back lol

Every lover after me; is a DejaVu ♥

"I got a thing for this little mama she do it to me plus her brain is forreal imma sucka for love I guess. Wont catch her up in the club cuz she aint into that; Kind of chick that rather rent a flick and get intimate. Say she never fuck with thug niggas only gentlemen && yea that ass is fat but whats better is her intellect. Other men sweat her when we walk past. Cant even blame em’ I did the same when I saw that ass match with the thin waist, brown with a slime face. Love the conversation and the kicks was like a sensai. Now she got me chillin with her all around the clock. My homies beefin cuz I never come around a lot. Keep on telling me I changed and things aint the same & ever since she came around I never want to hang. They tell me that its foul how a chick will make me switch; But man I cant help it dog her mind got me whipped!" -J Cole ♥

iMODEL❤

Name:Thelma

Age:20

Hobbies:In my spare time i love to travel, read novels, go swimming, watch movies, shop, play b-ball and loads more. i take interest in painting and art and also in nature.

Hometown: Nigeria.

Currently:London, United Kingdom

Music:whenever i am in a bad mood and feel like crying i listen to music and dance all over my room it makes me feel a lot better.

Dreams and Goals:Well at the moment im studying straight Economics (loads of maths and statistics).i wanna come out with a first class and be a successful Economist (work in world bank). however i would also want to make it big time in the modelling world on the side as a hubby. the rest of my plans and idea's are personal and should not be known to anyone apart from myself ofcourse.

Inspiration:

i look up to people like Tyra Banks, she's so good and nearly perfect, she's a diva when it comes to struting poses and givin facial expressions. she had the drive to be a model and she kept pushing it even when most agencies refused her and now she's accomplished so much but she's still that nice and kind heated lady.

Why u model:

I model because u know standing in front of the camera's, being creative with poses is something i love doing and its really interesting bringing out all this expressions facially. Modelling is something Ive always wanted to do right from childhood, remember wearing when i was younger, i and my sisters would wear almost all our clothes and catwalk through the room (lol) we used to pretend it was a mini runway...hahhah.... in general i have a huge passion for modelling.

MOST ROMANTIC EXPERIENCES:
{LOL}but do be frank with you i havent really had any romantic gestures, in my own view i think that sort of thing just happens in movies,where a guy would stay outside your house with flowers and sing or where a guy would actually pay some helicopters to carry out flying banners saying i love you,(i could go on and on and on)i think guys of now adays dont have time for that. however it would be really sweet for a guy to do that.

MOST EMBARASSING MOMENT:
oh my Gosh anytime i reminisce on that moment i just lmao...would give much info but the whole scenario was me slipping by the pool side and falling...
During winter in 2009, went out for a bit to the grocery shop nearby and cuz of all the snow plus my fluffies was really slipping, i fell infront on top of some guy.
Thelma also added:

Her MOTTO: for as long there's life there's hope...

so people dont give up, your only a looser when you quit

''Your dreams are not as hard as it may seem, you've just got to work hard for it and chase your fear away''

side note:lol me and Miss diva here been mad friends since our per teens haha, And its good to see her taking part of what she loves...cause if you ask me"i think she'll make a fine model" : )

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